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7 Ways MILFs can Ensure Their Cubs Keep Coming Back for More.

Keeping younger guys interested is one of the biggest problems about being a MILF. Even when the sex starts out great, the age difference can nag away in your mind, and it's easy to start worrying whether your younger lover will desert you.

MILF getting intimate with her cub
Avoid copying the sexual techniques of younger girls.

However, if you continue to wow him in bed, he won't be going anywhere. Here are some ideas about how to do so.

1. Stay in Shape and Pay Attention to Your Appearance

This might sound shallow, but it's important: MILFs need to make the most of their physical charms in order to keep the attention of younger guys. That's just a fact of life. Too many women let their attention drift as they become used to younger partners, allowing their standards to drop.

They might dress less sexily or gain weight - which is fine, but not if your passion flags at the same time.

2. Always Have a Trick or Two up Your Sleeve

To keep a young guy happy, you need to maintain the aura of experience and authority. One of the reasons why your cub is with you is their desire to learn sexual knowledge.

With your experience, you need to play the teacher all the time, showing him new techniques and unlocking his potential. Put a lifetime of experimentation to good use and you'll maintain his attention.

3. Really Get to Know What Turns Him On

Keeping a younger guy is all about knowledge. If you know his sexual tastes and turn-ons, you can constantly wrap him around your little finger.

Remember, younger women are often too self-obsessed to see him the way you do. Use your focus to find out what he loves, and give it to him every night.

4. Try to Maintain Your Sexual Confidence

Never get into a cycle of sexual despair. Even if you have a bad night, or he goes out with a female friend for a drink, don't let that knock your confidence.

Meet up with your own friends, do what you enjoy, and tell yourself that you, and only you, have the sexual prowess to satisfy your guy.

sexy Milf lying naked on the bed
Don't forget to use your physical charms to get to him.

5. Spoil him Rotten in the Bedroom

Here's an obvious, but often forgotten way to keep younger guys keen: When you notice they are zoning out, play the sugar mummy card. Compliment them about their body or their looks. Tell them they are special, and puff up their ego.

And don't be afraid to go all the way, coupling your praise with caresses and sexual favors. It won't take much to remind him how much you turn him on, believe me.

6. Forget About Emulating Younger Girls

One of the biggest traps that MILFs fall into when their passion starts to falter is to copy the sexual techniques of younger girls. Your guy isn't with you for coyness and flirting.

So here's a Pro Tip to keep in your mind: He's with you because of your sexual experience and sense of freedom, so don't take a step back. You're a MILF, and you give him things 20-somethings never could.

7. Props DO Make a Difference

Here's another crucial Pro Tip: If things aren't going right, don't be afraid to introduce a strap-on, a dildo or uniforms into the equation. Not only will these spice up the night, they also aren't the kind of things younger girls will think about.

MILF sex is kinkier, more passionate, more liberated - So remind him of that with the right toys and sexy outfits.

All of these things can help you hold the attention of a younger guy, but sometimes you just need to take a reality check. Most of the time, sure, you can bring him back to attention. But sometimes, guys just lose the MILF fixation.

Bear that in mind, and be clear about whether he's right for you. If he is - You'll win him back in no time!

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