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Should You Let Sexy MILFs Come to You?

So you have a thing about MILFs. Welcome to the club, and welcome to the age old question that all MILF lovers ask themselves: should I talk to that neighborhood babe, or should I wait for her to signal that she's up for some fun?

MILF undressing her cub
Decode MILFs' language and approach correctly!

The truth is that there are no rules about attracting MILFs, but this article will provide some answers to your conundrum.

Will MILFs Hunt Down Their Cubs?

One of the main myths about MILFs is that they are hunters, remorselessly stalking their prey: sexy, horny young guys. There's a lot of truth in that portrayal, but it's a radical simplification. MILFs will rarely approach you on the street or a the supermarket and meet your gaze, beckoning you for sex. Their come ons are more subtle, and you need to learn how to decode them.

The First Moves Can be Hard to Detect

The signs that MILFs are keen for sex aren't always obvious. Sure, they tend to dress in a certain way - more provocative than other women their age, and tailored to the desires of younger guys. But their body language isn't blatant.

If they glance at you then turn away; if they play with their hair; if they brush past you then pause - these are sure signs that a MILF is ready to get to know you.

Choose Settings Where MILFs Are Likely To Make Their Move

Another thing to remember is that older women looking for sex won't make the first move just anywhere. They need to be somewhere that they dominate - an enclosed space with other MILFs and a dynamic that puts them in control.

So head to singles bars with older women congregate. You'll find that sexy older looking for youger men flirting in no time.

What if There's a Sexy MILF Who Doesn't Hit the Singles Bars?

However, MILFs often don't get out clubbing or drinking. Sometimes they just sunbathe by their pools, knowing that cubs are watching. Sometimes they are too shy to socialize, but deep down crave a young guy in their life.

If you know someone like this, don't forget about them. Just don't expect them to make the first move. You'll need to make the running instead.

How to Hook A MILF who Hasn't Hit the Dating Scene

If you know a stay at home MILF, you've got plenty of options. One way is to engineer a chance meeting. Take a walk when she gets back from work, put some of your post through her letterbox so she has to return it, or ask for some sugar: the old ones are often the best ones.

Tailor Your Hook-up Strategy to the MILF You are Working On

When you do meet the MILF of your dreams, don't act macho. Don't act like you would in a bar. Make eye contact, be polite and smile. Check out her response.

If she smiles back and holds your gaze, or if she glances away and then back again, you could be in business. If not, well, there are plenty of other MILFs around.

Pro-Tips for guys deciding whether to approach MILFs:

If you know a few MILFs but can't tell whether they are the type who would come on to you, or who need you to go to them, here are a couple of tips that always get results.

  1. Check online dating apps to see if your MILF contact is there- If MILFs are online, you can chat anonymously to check them out, or see whether they are the type who message guys first. If so, it's a fair bet that they will come to you in real life.
  2. Make it look like she's making the first move- Whether you're in clubs and trying to make eye contact, or targeting the hot MILF next door, if you can make her feel like hooking up is her idea, she'll be much more into you in the bedroom later.

MILFs are like anyone else! Some are shy, some are confident. So tailor your approach to each individual. Pick the right spot to flirt, or find a way to bump into them. Either way, you'll hook them in the end.

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